This is atleast the definition of Google.
Women who have doubts about getting married should not ignore them - as those with misgivings about walking down the aisle are more likely to get divorced or can lead to an unhappy marriage. Their misgivings are often a warning sign of trouble if they go ahead with the marriage.
Pre-wedding uncertainty, especially among women, tells us that when women have doubts before their wedding, these should not be lightly dismissed.
You know yourself, your partner and your relationship better than anybody else does; If you’re feeling nervous about it, pay attention to that. It’s worth exploring what you’re nervous about.
Doubt proved to be a decisive factor .Do not assume your doubts will just go away or that love is enough to overpower your concerns. There’s no evidence that problems in a marriage just go away and get better. If anything, problems are more likely to escalate.
Take it this way, If you see something unusual on your skin, should you ignore it and go to the beach, or see a doctor? Be smart and don’t ignore it - and don’t ignore your doubts either. Have a conversation and see how it goes. Do you think the doubts will go away when you have a mortgage and two kids? Don’t count on that.
I am not advising women with doubts to necessarily end the relationship. Talk about it and try to work through it. You hope that the big issues have been addressed before the wedding.
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